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  • |02/11/2011 06:04 am
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  A dear friend of mine and i have recently been talking of things that have gone wrong in M/s relationships. W/we discussed what went wrong with one of His subs. He tells me that it became a chore to spend time with this sub. That it has lost it's pleasure....
  So it got me to thinking, is this the reason? Is this the reason for the release of so many newbie subs? Did it become too much of a chore to reassure them? Does the insecurities of the newbie become such a pattern that it destroys anything a Master is trying to build? Does the Master get to the point that it gives Him an emotional headache just to listen to the insecure rantings of the slave?
  i look back at the work i've done with troubled slaves and i think its the answer...i know looking back at my own experience i was a pain in the ass....always whining about losing when it hadnt even happened. Maybe after awhile the Master looses the energy or the desire to reassure the sub/slave. Maybe after awhile the Master needs to take a reality look at how He spends His day with said sub and decides it is just too much work to constantly bring the slaves self esteem up.
  i have always felt so bad for the slaves and what they are going through. maybe i should have looked at what the Master goes through. It is easy to always side with who we think the victim in it all is when maybe the reality of it is....the Master is the one who should be felt for. The Master puts out so much energy and thought into building the bond, for what....Its interesting to me that you never see a Dom/Master writing on forums of the pain of the experience when the bond has been broken...only the slaves do this. Maybe if Masters/Doms had a place to vent, as we the slaves do, it would be looked at so differently. How disrespected they must feel when they read the rantings of the slave they had no choice but to release.
  How sad does the Master feel when they have put so much work into bringing down the walls but in the end it didnt work out. They must become exhausted and feel as if they dont want to go through this again. Slaves will tell you they can't go through it again. That they cant expose their inner soul like that again....What about the Master and the work He put into helping the slaves experience the freedom...All the work the Master did for someone else to come along and get the benefits of the breaking of the ground.
  Makes me think in comparison to a builder. The builder goes in and works His ass off clearing the lot of all the rubble and trees. He puts in the well and the septic and the loan falls through for what ever reason. Then some other builder comes in and finishes the job. Building a beautiful house on the land. Does the original builder get any rewards or credit for his hard work....no he does not.
  Being a Master is such a thankless job. i have always thought this were true. Slaves talk of all their hard work all the time.What they have done to be the perfect slave...never mentioning all the work of the Master.People say that submission is a gift to be cherished....the work of a Master is just as important and should be equally cherished. Without the Master/Dom who would the slave/sub submit to?
  To the Masters out there....what incredible people You are. How incredibly unselfish You are....to be responsible for someone elses life...A Masters skill is truly a gift and is something not to be taken for granted.
  i know that this slave is thankful for every Master/Dom that has passed through her life even in friendship they have all helped me become the person i am today