Gypsies of the journey...thoughts of naughty

Gypsies of the Journey.......thoughts of naughty

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• |04/22/2011 08:47 am
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I have been trying to educate myself for quite sometime on all the things i can to do with this lifestyle.One of the things that has me confused is the lifestyle of switches. Now, when i say that i want to make something clear. In no way am i judging them. In no way do i mean to be little them with the questions that i have. i respect all people in their choice of who they are. So with that said...allow me to explain my confussion.
From what i understand about Dominates they are dominate in everything that they do and everything that they are...the Dominate is usually aware of itself from an early age. Never being anything but that in their mind.Now i am aware that some Dominates in the interest of learning about submission will be a submissive to another Dominate for a learning period, but usually they are quite aware of who they are.
The submissives.i have been submissive by nature my entire life. There has never been a question of who i am. Even long before i knew anything about this lifestyle i was aware that i took a submissive role in everything. That is not to say i cannot be a leader but my personality is submissive without a doubt. i have had young slave boys try to convince me they see a Mistress in me and i gently tell them to look again. There is nothing top or Domme about me.
So now that is the Dominate person and the submissive person. Regardless of play, they are who they are. These types for the most part stay true to their title.They consider this to be who they are not roles they are playing. So when did a switch become a switch?
With the switch were they at one point a submissive that had a Dominate hurt them? Or at one point were they a Dominate with a bad submissive and decided they couldnt handle the control anymore? Do switches merely role play. Do they switch roles like playing a part in a play or trying on a costume?
So i got to thinking..trying to wrap my head around it. Maybe it can be explained like being bi. Please by all means i am not saying they are in anyway gay or have the tendencies to be gay...i am just saying maybe it is like that.With a person that is Bi they tend to be very sexual people. I think they will lean towards one sex or the other but they have an exploring personality. So is a switch just a sexual being with the ability to explore all roads? Do they lean towards one or the other roles with a preference to one but the explorer in them allows them to be extremely open minded and play either side?
So with all that said...a switch had way more options to play. They have more opportunity because they flip both sides. They are interesting to me....gypies of the journey.No limits to the posabilities. They play by their own rules and their own lables...
With all my theories i still have no idea what makes them who they are..i think i will be studying them further. Regardless of the title we see ourselves wearing or the sexual prefrences we have...We are all a part of a wonderful journey...enjoy the ride.